Tiphani On…

 

MY EX

It was time to move on. After years of negotiating and compromising, I finally left. Gave no explanation. No goodbye. Just left. Changed my phone number and moved on. I realized I didn’t need the closure that I thought was necessary for my healing and it was the best decision I ever made.

CHEATERS

I think that all men cheat.

Ok, maybe not ALL men, but I’m a firm believer that if your man isn’t faithful to God, HE WILL NOT BE FAITHFUL TO YOU.

You can’t expect a man who has yet to ask you to be his wife (and actually go through with it) to be faithful. He’s still single and the fact that your last names are NOT the same proves it. If he cheated once, he’ll do it again.

And again.

And again.

And again.

Commitment and faithfulness are rare in this day and age, but is compromising just to have a man worth your sanity?

 

THE OTHER WOMAN

Seriously, are we still on this?

Ok, let me be the first to admit that when I was younger, EVERYTHING was the other woman’s fault, but with age comes wisdom (well, at least in my case it did) and I learned that you only attack her because of you’re own insecurities and fears.

 To all of you who have a “boyfriend” let me help you out:

SHE IS NOT THE PROBLEM!!

He’s the one who betrayed your trust.

He owes you the explanation.

THE OTHER WOMAN’S EXSISTENCE IS HIS FAULT.

 

HEALING A BROKEN HEART

Cry.

Until it’s over.

Until your eyes can produce no more tears.

Give yourself time to grieve the loss, but then move on. Quickly. And love again. Like it’s the first time.

 

DATING

Be a lady.

NEVER pay.

Lose your independence for just a second and enjoy being wined and dined.

 Side Note: DON’T HAVE SEX WITH HIM. Because it probably won’t last long. And when that happens, you’ll be able to move on to the next one with ease. Because you won’t be left with the sad fact that you tried to keep him with your pussy.

  

GOLD DIGGING

Thankfully for me, I attract $$$ #justSAYING

 

LOVE

If only for a moment, enjoy it.

Every last second.

I LOVE feeling like this. It’s just the best feeling in the world!

 

MARRIAGE

Don’t play wife without the ring. #thatsALL

 

FRIENDSHIP

Some aren’t worth keeping, but if you have the BFFs that I have, you’d do EVERYTHING in your power to keep them in your life. Mine keep me sane and grounded. They are honest when I rather them not be and they love me #flawsANDall

 

SINGLE PARENTING

Sweet Baby Jesus, take the wheel! #nuffSAID

 

CHILD SUPPORT

$50 a week?

Fifty.

Dollars.

A week?

SWEET BABY JESUS, TAKE THE CAR!!!

 

FORGIVENESS

Holding on to hurt, whether past or present causes sickness (cancer, heart disease, etc.) Set your will to forgive people before they even do anything wrong because what they did (or WILL do) to hurt you isn’t worth your health.

Let it go.

All of it.

Now.

 

CAREER

I’m writing as many books as my fingers can type, producing my first documentary, and a few other projects that I’m keeping TOP SECRET for now. I’m building an empire (and its gonna WIN WIN WIN NO MATTER WHAT)!!!

 

PROCRASTINATION

I was supposed to start this blog last year.

Schedule this post for this morning.

Start on my new book….*hangs head low*

 

BIBLE

It’s not an anthology that a group of old men got together to write one day. Its 66 books of seed that is to be planted in your life, watered, and nurtured.

For example:

If you’re having lack in your life, find the scripture that pertains to prosperity and confess them out loud over your life.

***Genesis 39:1-6, 21 Like Joseph, I prosper wherever I go and in every situation I’m in because the Lord is always with me. I too experience preferential treatment.

***Luke 1:28 I am blessed and highly favored.

***Deu.7:15; Psalm 5: 12 Because the favor of God shields me, no sickness or disease has a right to live in my body.

***Deut. 8:18, Psalm 112:3 Wealth and riches are in my house because I am empowered with His anointing and favor to draw wealth.

 

GOD

Most days I don’t deserve His grace and mercy. Just glad that He doesn’t feel the same.

 

GIVING

It’s an art that I have yet to master. But this year I have made it a priority to be a giver. I’m thinkin it’ll up my Jesus points and I need as many of those as I can get!

 

Believe + Conquer,

Tiph