Maybe if you knew what love was, you would recognize that the relationship you are in isn’t. He doesn’t value you and you know that yet you stick around hoping that one day he will.
Years fly by yet the two of you have yet to grow.
As lovers.
As friends.
Years fly by and you seem to still be where you first started. Back to the beginning when your thoughts were filled with mere wishful thinking with no life time commitment.
No promises of forever.
Never an “I love you.”
Just the hurtful conclusion that you’re pointless in his life.
You often let him touch you.
The way a woman lets a john touch her.
With cold hands.
And no heart.
Just lust and a burning desire to cum.
And you let him.
You close your eyes and pretend that his touch is warm. That he’s in love with you, but when you open your eyes you are back to reality.
That the man that was on top of you:
Never.
Even.
Knew.
You.
Existed.
Move On. Quickly.
Tiph
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YA DAAAAMMMNNNN RIGHT SISTA!
This gets a standing ovation! I really enjoy your blogs, thank you!
Thanks ladies, I really appreciate it!!!
Bravo Tiphani!!! I would like to share this blog on my profile. You are truly a Wise Soul!!! Take care and continue to spread your great words of wisdom!!
so young yet so wise.
i wish these girls would wake up.
nice post.
dang tiph i guess women never screw up…only and always men.
aiight.
* single thug tear falls *
i see how it is.
@ZillZ lol…women screw up plenty (more on that next week), but as the leader of the homes, men have to take their responsibility for why the women have to protect themselves from men. I know you’re one of them, but face it….most men are lost causes… #justiswhatitis
i can’t cosign that statement. if i did, it’s the same for women as well.
what happens to ppl is what they allow happen to them.
protect? nah… making poor choices from the beginning is more like it. and again that goes both ways.
why do men need to take responsibility for women to protect themselves from them (also saying men need to take responsibility for the actions of women)??? unless women are truly puppets, then that statement is just…
why can’t women take responsibility for the type of men that they choose instead. and same thing with men.
YOU are so right and so many women need to read this! I love this and it sure says a lot about you! Teach and Preach Sista!